Start Erotic chat messages to boyfriend

Erotic chat messages to boyfriend

So how do you approach the topic of sex tastefully? Stop waiting for permission to move into intimate topics.

She may challenge you and put you on the spot about why you’re asking about this sensitive subject.

The absolute worst things you can do are apologize or try to explain why you didn’t mean to be “weird”.

Instead, assume if you’ve been talking to a woman for a minimum of 15-30 minutes (at a bar or on a date), it’s safe to try leading into more enticing conversation.

From there, you can immediately roll into your sexual question to open up a discussion.

You need to bring your conversations toward more intimate topics as an interaction progresses.

That’s how she’s going to get turned on and see you as a sexual prospect.

Of course, you don’t want to start with something extremely intimate.

That will come off as intense and discourage a woman from opening up. If she’s discussing them with you, you can move towards heavier ones.

All you’re going to do is reinforce that this subject is shameful and wrong.

Instead, you want her to feel this is something natural, normal, and FUN to talk about. Mine was horrible…I remember being so nervous that when I first went in to kiss her, I shoulder checked her instead.

(Examples go from lighter to heavier) Remember that these subjects often trigger feelings of shame and defensiveness.