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She had called me this morning and begged to cancel at the last minute.

I have begged and pleaded with her to come to a session so that I can get my daughter back home; however, she is steadfast. You married a long-distance girlfriend without first transitioning her into your and your daughter’s life together (did she need a green card, by chance? You call your new wife “wonderful” despite how shitty she has treated your 10-year-old daughter and, rather than kick her ass to the curb when she refuses to get any sort of professional help and guidance to smooth the rocky waters SHE created with your daughter, you have let your daughter stay away from your home all these months? If you are being forced to choose between being a husband and a dad, it’s your wife who has given you that ultimatum, and, so far, you have chosen her over your daughter. And, to be quite frank, you don’t sound like much of a dad at this point.

Recently I have stated that our relationship is going to be in trouble should this situation persist, but the wife’s answer remains “No, not ever.” I love my daughter very much and the past three months have been torture without having her home. I feel like I must choose between being a husband or being a dad. You’ve chosen a woman who would rather at a young girl whose father just married a woman she hardly knows than, you know, act compassionately and maturely and lovingly with a brand new step-daughter who is probably freaked out by this sudden change in her family and lifestyle. I can only imagine you have been blinded by something about your wife those of us reading your letter can’t see and aren’t privy too.

It seems her boyfriend thought it was important that she attend his family's Christmas Eve gathering.

I'm not sure if he really knows what Rachel does for a living.

There will be some boring conversation, some really off-color jokes, and the best food spread prepared by the best caterers in town.

It's the kind of party that would make the social section of the -- except no press will be allowed within 2,000 feet of the club tonight.

That’s a horrible thing to say about another person — sexist, punitive, and demeaning, and another person’s sexuality is none of your business — and I hope you’ll take this as a flag to rethink whatever thought pattern led you there.