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The virtual dating game

Some action-reactions were obvious, but others less so. And her thought process was more nuanced than I would expect.

Once you have the materials just find a movie on the device you both like then call each other on the phone and watch simultaneously.

You’d be hard pressed to find a single 20-something who isn’t on Tinder, OKCupid, Happn or any one of countless dating apps.

"I hope that people who see the pictures and read the story understand that this is not a norm, but one part of Japanese culture," d' Aki says.

Well, technically, her hand was reaching towards the front screen of my cellphone.

Women tend to prefer , Swedish photographer Loulou d’Aki and writer Roland Fischer explore the engrossing subculture of virtual romance gaming.

Working primarily in Tokyo, d’Aki and Fischer spent a month interviewing players and attending events associated with and its ilk.

Not all who play these games are lonely or out of touch, and d' Aki said she found most stories about romance games to be one-sided and unfair.

She wanted to look beyond the stereotypes and stigmas.

Love Plus, a Nintendo DS game, is only available in Japan, so I browsed virtual dating apps in the Google Play Store. Here’s how the game works: First you rank yourself, both physically and personality-wise, in a handful of provided categories (are you a bad boy? You can pick things to do or say to her, give her gifts, react to things she tells you, physically "touch" her by pawing your smartphone screen, take her on dates, or make her changes clothes. Pretty much all the girlfriends have cliche "babe" bodies, with enormous racks and itty-bitty waists, and they use the kind of cheesy lines that even an awkward, hormonal middle schooler would pass up.

As you interact over time, you fill up her heart and progress to new levels, each of which unlocks new potential actions. The girls play hardcore into whatever personality stereotype they've been designated, meaning that when I was dating a "modern hippie" girl, she was constantly referencing pilates, green energy, and how she loves hiking.

A gamer named Masano has been dating his virtual girlfriend since 2009 and brings his console everywhere he goes.