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Ok cupid dating tips

Notice how it’s a slight, but not over the top compliment, followed by pointing out that online dating, is in fact tedious. At this point, most will respond with something like, “Okay, that sounds good :).” Most will play coy and not offer the number in this message.

You can lie a little bit about your body type – if you’re overweight, “average” is fair game (trust me, girls are the worst at this one).

The important thing is to keep it all within reason.

If she’s a seasoned veteran to the online world, and she’s still on, realize it’s because guys online have Most guys, except for the ones trying to rack up notches like yours truly did, are doing online dating because they have no chance in real life, either.

So they turn to OKCupid, and then start going on these dates, but their date skills aren’t any sharper than their approaching skills. Have a couple good DHV stories ready, learn the questions game…etc.

Unfortunately, you can move backwards faster than you can move forward.

Set the date in the first text exchange, and run solid text game so she doesn’t flake.

You need to answer probably about 100 of them, because it is a way for them to screen. One question usually posed was, “Have you ever had your heart broken? I rarely waited longer than 3-5 messages, depending on the vibe, to send this as a number close. In the end it’s all about chemistry so…quick drink to see if we get along.

I can’t remember where I originally got this, but I modified it slightly.

When I had mine, it literally talked about how I’m a bum who box surfs, and that I’m looking for a suga mama to take care of me.

Therefore, I had good success with this opener: As a final note, also make sure your profile questions are congruent to who you are. I’m hoping to find someone to help heal my broken heart.” Get it? Don’t waste any more time past getting her basically comfortable with you until you go for the kill. Plus, all illusions we build on here are shattered within 3 minutes of meeting in person.

Depending on your age, you can display how much money you make…if you make good money.