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It says you should contact me if "you're not a cop nor a member of the military nor the justice system." It's there because I know I'll have major problems with what that person spends their time doing.

"Don't bother if you live outside the [insert city] area.

I have, as mentioned, a rather personally fraught relationship with online dating. But there's a huge difference in bringing them up in conversation and laying your issues with them out in an online dating profile.

Catching too many of my supposedly monogamous partners using personal ads to cheat on me left me pretty thoroughly unable to commit to the process. Obviously, disclosing a divorce or children—though, personally, I think they shouldn't matter because a person is more than their history—is pretty standard, but there's a special class of people who want you to know that everyone else who rejected them was stupid.

Part of that is several of them are still involved in my life as friends; part of that is that the others often make for pretty funny stories.

Focusing on who you are and engaging with other people as they are is the way to make meaningful connections. But I also include a "don't bother if..." line at the end of my OKCupid profile.

But between (obviously) looking at my then-partners' dating profiles, and trying to see if I could just get over my issues by reading other people's, I've read a lot of online dating profiles over the years. " or "Don't bother if you live [in this "uncool" neighborhood]! If Prince/ss Charming rode up with a cat carrier and offered to carry you off to a neighborhood you deemed uncool, that person should just fuck off? Yes, dating profiles allow people to be very specific about what they want, but some people use that potential for specificity not to look critically at their dating choices to date and pick out qualities that are important, but to dream up the exact perfect person in their head for the role they want to have filled in that life.

And, although I normally avoid writing about my friends, I'll admit that I spent the last few months helping one of my best friends sort through women's profiles on " In once sense, I get it: You're advertising for The Perfect Person. There's a huge difference between trying to explain to the world what works for you, and issuing a checklist for the type of person who should even look in your direction. And, if you are the person who meets that checklist, great—but if you are 6'2" or have a Masters in philosophy instead, you're probably not going to respond.

Even if it's just a starting point for conversation.